Just an update: all relatively good here – Covid dustup is behind us – all 4 girls tested negative the end of last week – supposedly Aedan never got it (although we may antibody test him in few weeks to see) – although it was kind of a nightmare for all of us with the pockets of isolation and my chemo, etc., we’re feeling pretty blessed because: 1. for 8 months straight, we’ve been relatively terrified of Tegan getting the virus, due to her unique genetics and the fact she has a history of minor illnesses becoming pretty serious … well, she got it, and it bounced off her with little more than a stuffy nose, froggy voice and a few days of fatigue – I can’t overstate how relieved and thankful we are for that! 2. now Briton and Mackie don’t have to be as concerned about going back and forth between school and home and exposing Tegan and I 3. C came through it well, and now we don’t have to worry about her getting me sick …
As for where I’m at: just like first round of chemo, the first week this time had a few rough patches (mostly Wednesday and Thursday again) – but I’ve steadily climbed out of that low point, and yesterday was probably the best day I’ve had since chemo began a month ago – I go in for CT (to check what’s happening with tumors, etc.) and echo (to make sure chemo’s not damaging my heart) on New Year’s Eve – then, assuming all is okay, round three will be Monday, the 4th …
I have a lot to say about cancer and chemo, but I’m going to save it for a future post … primarily thoughts on the mental/psychological toll the two Cs take and my profound respect for the unique brotherhood/sisterhood comprised of those who’ve already been down this road …
Also, a shout out to my boys who pulled out the trimmers and razors and cut their hair off in a show of solidarity! My bald brothers-in-arms! – obviously, there was no need to do that, but I’d be remiss if I didn’t thank you from the bottom of my heart for that genuine gesture of love and brotherhood!
And, most importantly, thank you all for the constant prayers and support – no way I could ever articulate how much that has meant to our family, especially during those crazy siege weeks … for me, going through that first round of chemo in isolation was a “unique” mental challenge – I can tell you the constant contacts I received from all you all out there was a life-saver!!!
Love and Peace – and Merry Christmas!!!